Thu, 27 April 2017
Why Even The Best Memory Improvement Books Are Wrong When They Teach You To Memorize A Shopping List
Don’t you hate that sinking feeling? You know the one. You crack open another memory improvement book. You’re excited to take your memory training to the next level. You’re hungry for the next-level techniques that no one has ever shown you before. And yet there it is again …
Another Useless Memory Improvement Exercise!
Seriously. I can’t tell you the number of times I’ve read a memory trainer promising the world only to start things off with something like this: “Now that you know how to use your memory, practice with your shopping list.” Yawn. But … I get why they do it. It’s called giving the student a “quick victory.” But there’s a problem with quick victories. Especially when they’re attached to gains that simply don’t connect. To your heart. Your soul. That part of your mind that craves conquering even the toughest information in the world. For achieving that, I recommend these books instead: In other words, you want memory improvement books that give you the ability to …
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Mon, 24 April 2017
Have you ever heard the phrase, “writing is re-writing”? It’s an important principle for people learning to write. Why? Because there’s a destructive fantasy going around: The fantasy that the first draft is good enough. The truth:
The First Draft Usually Stinks!
It needs revision. Often lots of it. Believe it or not, it’s the same thing with reading books. Yes, you can use the Magnetic Memory Method to memorize a textbook. It’s an incredible skill to have. But often enough … one read just doesn’t cut it. And there are reasons why. Here are 11 of them.
#1: Context Is King
Get this: Once upon a time, I could only afford to take one course at university. I had to work three jobs just to afford the tuition! Looked at ironically, I was lucky I could afford to take just one course. Why? Because all those jobs left me with time enough to complete the reading requirements of only the one course! All joking aside, I read Plato’s Republic that year while walking up and down the hill to the university. It was all the time I had. But it was fitting because many of the dialogues that make up The Republic take place outdoors. And although it’s Aristotle who belongs more closely to the Peripatetic School of philosophy, walking around is … walking around. And because I’m a diligent reader who enjoys the slower process of MMM Bibliomancy as taught in the Magnetic Memory Method Masterplan or briefly here, I let the books I need to read absorb me based on the context of reading. The second time I read The Republic was as a professor living in Saarbrücken, Germany. This time I read The Republic as an audiobook, also while walking up and down a hill. But even though the mechanical operation of walking from place to place was the same, I was reading The Republic this time as an educator, not a student. And instead of reading The Republic in the context of other philosophers (like St. Augustine and Hobbes), I was re-reading it during a period when I was dialed deep into Eckhart Tolle and Wayne Dyer. Context changes everything and that means the same book was actually very different. The result? Context unlocked thoughts about its contents and “unhid” more interesting details to remember. Alethia for unhiding is a fancy ancient Greek word you’re going to want to add to your collection, by the way. Keep it and context in mind as your go-to rereading strategy. You’ll be delighted by what happens!
#2: The Organic Source Of New Ideas Re-generates Itself
You know that many of your cells regenerate, right? Not all of them, but enough that you can make the claim that we have a chronological age and a cellular age. And if you wait long enough to re-read a book, you’re technically not the same the person as the first time you read the book. Sure, your heart, brain and bones are pretty much the same, but the rest? A whole new you. And that means completely new arms, hands and eyes that deliver the book to your brain. Isn’t that exciting to think about?
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Wed, 19 April 2017
Go ahead and admit it. You’re skeptical that memory techniques will work for you. You might even be skeptical that memory techniques work at all. I mean … those memory champions could be using mirrors or some kind of technology, right? They’re absolutely not, but … who hasn’t given it a thought when you hear the incredible results of memory improvement training. Hundreds of words! Thousands of digits! Countless decks of playing cards! All under the pressure of time, cameras and competition. Here’s the thing: As scientifically proven as the memory techniques are …
Your Skepticism Is Good!
In fact … It turns out that the more skeptical you are about memory techniques, the better they work! And over the years, I’ve discovered 3 reasons why skeptics succeed with memory techniques better than anyone else. Buckle in because if you’ve been sitting on the fence when it comes to using memory techniques … … or if you’ve been suffering less than stellar results every time you give them a try … The problem could be that you’re just not skeptical enough.
#1 Skeptics Are Ethical
Kind of a weird place to start, right? But it’s true. Because skeptics tend to follow, in one way or another, the laws of a universal rule: The responsibility for demonstrating the validity of a claim falls on the person making the claim. In other words: If YOU say something outlandish like, “Memory techniques won’t work for me” … … AND you’re an ethical person … YOU Will Do Something To Prove That You’re Right!
And that’s where the fun begins. Why? Because it’s almost impossible NOT to succeed with memory techniques if you’re ethical. And you have to be seriously getting in your own way to make failure even a remote possibility.
#2 Skepticism Comes Packed With Determination
People anxious to prove that they can’t use memory techniques bring truckloads of determination. So much so that they’re able to quickly overcome the objections that people with only a passing interest in training their memory allow to disrupt them. What are these objections?
… and a slew of other negative self-talkisms that no true skeptic would ever let stand in their way. No, skeptics want badly to get at the truth. So they tackle the training with all the due diligence it deserves. Aren’t you starting to wish that you were a skeptic too?
#3 Skepticism Creates Multiple Levels Of Energy
Think about it this way: The fact that the skeptic motors in with all guns blazing to prove that they can’t do it is one level of energy. But then when they begin to see that they’re absolutely wrong … A new energy appears. The energy of total surprise and excitement from getting results! Because lo and behold, these skeptics discover … the memory techniques do perform with ease after all! And when that second level of energy doubles back to the memory of their skepticism … it grows even bigger! Why? Because they’ve returned to their ethical core and accomplished something profound. They didn’t sit around whining and crying about their doubt. They went out and investigated. They picked the purportedly miraculous skill apart and learned it in the process. And, of course, to really learn memory techniques, you’ve got to also use them. And when that happens …
You’re Hooked For Life!
Isn’t that exciting? You bet it is. Just like it was for Tom, who attended one of the live Magnetic Memory Method trainings I give around the world. On this particular occasion … Guilin, China. At the end of the second session, Tom came to me and exclaimed, “You changed my life!” To be honest, that bold claim made me a bit skeptical! So we chatted a bit and I understood he was sincere. But it wasn’t until the third day that he told me just how skeptical he’d been. Listening to me talk … … even before he took action … … the clarity that the Magnetic Memory Method brings to authentic memory improvement wasn’t opening his mind or melting his heart … It was creating a plan of attack! And even in the planning, Tom could see that …
He Would Fail To Prove That Memory Techniques Don’t Work!
Although … here’s the ugly truth. It’s easy to repeat the good news that “memory techniques work.” But that’s semantics. The truth is that memory techniques don’t work. Oh no. Not at all. It’s YOU who work the techniques. Never the other way around. You don’t ask a skipping rope to fly in circles in the air, do you? No! You pick it up and twirl it around your body as you jump up and down. It’s not magic – it’s exercise! And the benefits of doing so? Immense! But for some reason, many people expect to buy a memory improvement book or course and have some kind of otherworldly, spellbinding transformation. Well … that’s not so far off the mark. If you work the memory techniques, you absolutely can experience an entrancing metamorphosis of memory ability most people only dream of! But you’ve got to understand that all memory improvement begins and ends with picking up the tool and using it.
And That’s Why Tom Couldn’t Prove That Memory Techniques Don’t Work!
He was too determined to pick up the tool and use it to prove that the memory techniques don’t work. But to do that … He had to work the techniques! And so the third day he returned to me and said again, “You changed my life!” But this time it wasn’t just with the claim that I’d changed his life. It was with a Magnetic Memory Method Memory Journal in tow. All the instructions followed to the letter. And let me tell you … His first Memory Palace Looked Beautiful! And on the page beside it, two columns of Chinese idioms. Not simple vocabulary, but small, complex phrases.
And What Happened Next Didn’t Surprise Me In The Least!
You see, I’ve encountered many times before. Not that it doesn’t give me a thrill each and every time. Quite the opposite. As I listened to Tom recite 20 Chinese idioms off the top of his head, my heart exploded with pride, excitement and the absolute edification that comes with seeing yet another skeptic move over to the Magnetic side of the Force. I’ve felt the same edification when using the Magnetic Memory Method to memorize Chinese poems. But oh how Tom doubted! And oh how he let his skepticism be his prime motivator. Which leaves us now with possibly …
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Thu, 13 April 2017
Ever feel frustrated by people with strong memory abilities? You know the kind. They rattle off names. They know all their credit card numbers. They say, “April 10th, 1972,” not “back then” or “in the past.” They’re specific. And make no mistake: Specificity Makes Your Life Better
They feel good when they call restaurant staff by name. They seem to know everyone in a deeper way. Their capacity for human interaction shines. And when they have to do something with numbers, they do it with confidence. They’re in control. They’ve got it together. Even better: When it comes to conversation, they know how to hold their own. They don’t mess around with loose generalities. They don’t waver on the facts. They’re detailed. Specific. Precise. And let’s face it: It Annoys You To Your Core That You’re Not Like This!
It’s a real problem too. All that time you’re losing at work. Looking up the same procedural information again and again. Nothing you do solves the problem. You’re trapped in a prison of repetition, and nothing ever seems to sink in. In conversations, you continue to flounder. You can’t remember the names of actors, authors, even the titles of books you know you read. And the brain fog crushing your memory every time you sit down to do some math … It’s downright, depressing, isn’t it? Of course it is. The Simple Memory Improvement Solution Even |
Wed, 5 April 2017
Home is where the heart is, right? Judging by my inbox and all the pains and frustrations with memory I hear … Maybe not. I mean, think about it: You pour all that hard-earned money into rent or your mortgage, and yet … You’re Living In A Memory-Toxic Dump!
It really doesn’t matter how much you like your home. If you don’t set it up for memory success and sufficient memory care home solutions, you’re leading yourself down a path of mental destruction. And yes, there are things worse than Alzheimer’s. Such as letting another moment slip by without the extraordinary powers available to you now for improving your memory based on Memory Palace Science. In addition to all the memory techniques you can learn here on the site, here are 15 more ways that your home is crushing your memory. Avoid these issues and your memory abilities will soar.
1. Your Fridge Is Filled With Memory Destroying Foods
Here’s a rule of thumb you must not forget: If it comes with a list of ingredients, it’s probably wrecking your brain. I know it’s hard these days. Almost everything comes wrapped in plastic and there are additives in everything. Heck, you can’t even trust your local farmer’s market. But sticking with foods that improve memory isn’t hard. In fact, it’s one of the easiest things you can do. And yes, it’s the one time Magnetic Memory Method fans know I think it’s okay to memorize your shopping list. So drop the sauces and start eating well. Your brain and memory will thank you for it.
2. No Mat, No Enlightenment, No Memory Improvement
Getting sick of hearing about meditation? Don’t. In study after study, scientists keeps piling on all the benefits of meditation for your memory. And the good news is that memory is good for all kinds of other life areas too. Don’t believe me? Just listen: https://youtu.be/zP20eBfp2oM 3. No Dedicated Study And Memory Location
People say they want to get smarter, but do they act like it? Just take a look around your own home and point to all the places you go to FOCUS. If you can’t even come up with one, then you and your memory are in trouble. Don’t you think it’s time to fix it?
4. How Scribbling Can Save The Life Of Your Memory
Once you have a place to focus in, it’s good to have rituals. My morning rituals for Mandarin have changed a bit since I first shared them, but the basics are the same. And a huge part of getting my language learning done involves having an if-this-then-that chain of events. To help, I’m currently using The Mastery Journal, which is John Lee Dumas’ follow-up to the excellent Freedom Journal. Why not just use an app? Digital amnesia, for one thing. It’s killing your memory and your brain. Kind of like reading from screens is sucking your brain dry of the life it used to have.
5. Not Enough Dead Weight
Two words. More books. Real books. It’s true: People can’t remember nearly as much of what they read from a digital device as they can from physical books. Why? I have a lot of pet theories, but the important thing is that you make sure you’ve got physical books in your home. Even if it’s just a couple, so long as you actually read them, you’ll be doing your memory and brain a favor.
6. Not Enough Playful Romance (And Yes, Sex)
If you want to keep your brain and memory healthy, you’ve got to do it. Often. But more than just get physical with your partner, you’ve got to be romantic and make love in memorable ways. How? Ask questions. Tease. Remind your lover of the things you remember and prove that the past of your relationship matters. Because it does matter, doesn’t it? And if you can’t imagine it mattering, maybe you need to get checked out for aphantasia.
7. Too Much Idiot Box
Okay, everybody knows the truth here: TV has gotten better. And you can improve your memory by watching long form series and making a network of Memory Palaces from them. But here’s the thing: No matter how good TV gets, it’s still twitchy. Instead of helping you extend your attention span, it’s constantly shrinking it. Not only that, you’re continually being exposed to bad news that create the perception of a negative world. Well, guess what? That world doesn’t actually exist. And if you don’t believe me, just read The Better Angels Of Our Nature by Stephen Pinker. ‘nuff said.
8. Too Many Interruptions From Mobile Devices
If the TV isn’t interrupting your attention, instant notifications from a dozen or more less than useful apps are probably yapping at you. Seriously, does the latest post on Facebook really matter that much to you? Wouldn’t you rather be experiencing the benefits of learning a new language instead? Listen, I use social media too, but there’s a time and place for it and the home isn’t one of them. Try digital fasting and use social media only when you’re out at a cafe or some other place. My prediction: You’ll enjoy where you live more than you ever imagined possible.
9. No Wheels, No Memory Skills
Crazy, but true. I know all kinds of people who prefer driving to work when they could ride. A bike. They’re not only great exercise, but you can use bikes as Memory Palaces too. And driving instead of cycling means a few things: You’re robbing yourself of exercise while polluting the environment. You’re also robbing yourself of experiencing the world at a deeply infinite level. You see more when you go slower and that means you have more interesting thoughts to think. Plus, you’ll discover you have more Memory Palace options in your environment than you ever realized before. These will come in handy when you know how to improve memory for studying.
10. Only One Language Spoken At Home
This one’s a kicker. Far too many people live monolingual lives. Worse, they’ve hypnotized themselves into thinking that learning another language is hard. It costs time, energy and maybe a bit of money. No doubt about it. But hard? That’s just negative self-hypnosis. Check out The Big Five Of Language Learning and put this nonsense about language learning being difficult to rest. Your home will become so much more vibrant when you have multiple languages flowing through it. And that can’t help but be super-healthy for your memory and your brain. 11. Clutter, Clutter Everywhere And Not A Thought To Think
Okay, I’ll admit it. I’ve got a fair amount of clutter around me a lot of the time. But I also spend a few moments every morning clearing it up too. It’s written into my Mastery Journal as part of my morning routine. And not just the clutter around my physical desk. I spend at least 5-10 minutes arranging the files on my desktop into folders too. It does a lot to create focus and peace of mind, not to mention a heightened ability to find things fast.
12. No Musical Instruments
Like language learning, studying music is incredible for your memory. Not only that, but you can explore music and mnemonics together in many fascinating ways. Plus, you’re already probably familiar with the music mnemonics they teach in schools. Why not revive them and put them to some use?
13. Not Using Your Home As A University Campus
Did you know that you can get university level certifications for free? Welcome to the wonderful world of MOOCs (Massive Open Online Courses). For more information about these, check out my interview with Barbara Oakley. Why should you listen to what she has to say about Massive Open Online Courses? Simple. She’s the creator behind the biggest MOOC in the world! She’s also the author of several great books, including the wonderful Mindshift: Break Through Obstacles to Learning and Discover Your Hidden Potential. That library I was suggesting you should build in order to ensure that your home stops crushing your memory? Add MindShift to it.
14. Not Teaching The Kids How To Use A Memory Palace |